I've been referring to this as "feminism bingo":

...which is, of course,
bullshit of a pretty high order, because "misogynist responses to women who dare to speak up" really doesn't fall under "feminism." Henceforth this will be known as "misogyny bingo", with my apologies.
I mentioned offhand the possibility of doing an LJ series running the board, and
ayelle encouraged me with words that seemed totally out of proportion to how I see myself. I'm working more on the level of "basic humanity" rather than "really understanding the issues" and for a brief moment my ego was slightly inflated. Then I realized that 1) maybe we as a society are
way too far from "basic humanity" so it seems exceptional and/or 2) the notion of a guy, any guy, voluntarily speaking up is so rare as to be encouraged in the strongest.
So, this is one guy, who learned a few new ways to look at things in the last few years, trying to share that perspective with others. I am
not a women's studies expert by any means, nor frankly at the head of the pack in equal treatment. Just a guy.
I'll write up a real post in a day or two, but first, please, some
ground rules. I won't hestiate to screen or delete comments if necessary. In particular, if someone I don't know starts beating up on my friends, regardless of gender, I won't take it well.
1)
Men, please read these with the intent to understand and learn rather than to argue and justify. It's about
finding another perspective, not proving yourself right.
2)
Women, you're welcome to read and comment (particularly if I'm acting like an idiot), but you are not the target audience here. Sidenote: I'll be using conventional English rather than GNPs or more inclusive spellings.
3)
Everybody, please assume good faith; correct, and accept correction, gently. Let people make mistakes without having their head ripped off. And if you've made a mistake, honest, you're still a decent human being.
4) This is really a commentary on sexism. Other -isms deserve attention and effort. Just not in these topics...one thing at a time, please?
Three things that I've flogged before. Two are on race, not gender...as a white male, they were useful to me in understanding both. For others they may not translate as well:
I can fix it: racismHow not to be insane when accused of racismOn privilege[EDIT: Bah. The fourth, which started the conversation when
ayelle linked it, is
The Terrible Bargain We Have Regretfully Struck. Sorry for forgetting that; it's a good one. (And very uncomfortable for me. Good uncomfortable.)]
And one LJ community of interest, not terribly active:
feminist_101Good background reading. See you later.